Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance
Talent x effort = skill Skill x effort = achievement
Wise Parenting is Supportive and Demanding
Enroll kids in extra curricular activities of their liking, and make sure they stick to it for more than a year. It is a way to build Grit.
Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.